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I’m Your Man

Ich bin dein Mensch

Maria Schrader · Germany · 2021

To secure research funding, a brilliant, sceptical Berlin academic agrees to a three-week trial: living with Tom, a humanoid robot engineered, from her own data, to be her perfect romantic partner. Determined to prove the experiment absurd, she finds his relentless attentiveness by turns infuriating and disarming, and the line between programming and feeling harder to hold than she expected.

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The actor-turned-director Maria Schrader, fresh from the Emmy-winning miniseries Unorthodox, made I'm Your Man (2021) into one of the most charming German films of recent years. It won a Silver Bear at the Berlinale — awarded to its star Maren Eggert under the festival's then-new gender-neutral acting category — and became Germany's submission for the international-feature Oscar.

Eggert plays Alma, the cuneiform researcher pressed into testing a romance-android named Tom, played by the British actor Dan Stevens in flawless German. Schrader uses the science-fiction premise lightly, as a vehicle for a witty, melancholy comedy about loneliness, desire and what people actually want from love. Stevens is beautifully calibrated as the eerily perfect companion, and the film keeps its central question — can an engineered relationship be real? — open and genuinely affecting rather than gimmicky.

Critics praised its intelligence, its warmth and the chemistry of its leads, and it travelled widely on the festival and art-house circuit. In an era of films anxious about artificial intelligence, Schrader's offers something rarer: a humane, grown-up romantic comedy that uses the robot conceit to ask what makes a life feel full. Smart, funny and quietly poignant, I'm Your Man is contemporary German cinema at its most accessible and assured. Dan Stevens's flawless German-language performance became a talking point in itself, and the film travelled the world as a rare example of science fiction used for genuine emotional inquiry rather than spectacle.

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Maren Eggert

Maren Eggert

Alma Felser

Dan Stevens

Dan Stevens

Tom

Sandra Hüller

Sandra Hüller

Employee

Hans Löw

Hans Löw

Julian

Wolfgang Hübsch

Wolfgang Hübsch

Alma's Father